Anonymous said:
dude im pretty sure i fall more and more in love with you everytime i see your artwork. all of the colors and the anatomy and fantastical realism is so great oh my god im sorry i cant too amazing

lunarynth:

clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead:

lilitharcane:

letfashionfeedme:

lilitharcane:

rydenarmani:

sterlingsea:

thechangelingmedusa:

Like seriously, why isn’t pole dancing an olympic sport? This is freakin gymnastics. This is strength and skill. This is not sexual whatsoever. Why does pole dancing have to be so stigmatised as a sexual thing that only strippers do? I have great respect for all people who can pull this off. This is art and beauty right here. 

because sex workers invented it. can we stop trying so hard to ~elevate~ stripping/pole dance from its roots? thx

reblogging this with sterling’s comment because i’ve been seeing it on my dash with her url on it but her comment ripped off kinda making it look like she supports pole dancing being stolen from sex workers

I’m gonna be a bitch here and say that athletic, aerobic type of pole work looks like fucking shit anyways. You look like a fucking fool if you do that, and you don’t look in anyway sex. Keep trying to be “edgy” but it looks like shit. Oh you’re doing it “just for the fitness”? then why not do circus arts which take considerably the same amount of strength and agility.

Strippers who do pole work (I didn’t really, I can’t gain the muscle cuz of EDS) always look graceful, like they’re underwater. To a non sex worker this might sound weird but strippers look fucking elegant on the pole. 

The art and beauty is how strippers do it. Whatever the fuck you’re playing at looks like when Miley tries to twerk, aka, ruining it. (though a lot of white strippers do kind of twerk moves, but at a lot of clubs this is the only way to make considerable stage tips.

Actually sex workers didn’t invent pole dancing it was traced back eight hundred years to the traditional Indian sport of mallakhamb, not bashing or anything I used to strip but like try to educate yourself if you’re going to talk about something

But are these “pole dancers” doing the traditional Indian sport? (I’ve also heard Chinese too) The thing is, this is a common argument whorephobic girls use, and I know as a former sex worker that’s not you, but please don’t buy into their BS. 
They are trying to take our sport but cleanse it of our dirty whore-ness. The pole dance they do they DIRECTLY took from strippers, the whole pole dance movement with civvies started with basically girls wanting to feel sexy, edgy, or a little dirty without actually having to deal with the stigma. 

Then all the sudden instead of it being a way to spice up their sad sex lives, they decided it was an “art and sport”.

clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead do you have anything more to say about pole dancing girls trying to discredit us SWs being upset about pole dancers trying to say that they’re doing some “ancient art”? 

Either way, not attacking you hun, but I think it’s a valid discussion a lot of non SWs try to derail with :)

Burlesque dancers didn’t share tents with mallakhamb performers and I’d be damn surprised to hear that traveling shows that included burlesque and strip tease also included large logs that people practises mallakhamb on. Plus women weren’t allowed to participate in either mallakhamb or the Chinese pole sport. They wouldn’t have been shooting the shit being all “ladies ladies, let me show you some tricks you can do on my pole.”
I mean it shows an abysmal ignorance of the actual history of each performance style, plus traveling burlesque, plus race relations in the us. PLUS the immediate history of the popularity of pole fitness.

The fact that they’re trying to cite mallakhamb shows how little they know what the fuck they’re talking about. Google mallakhamb and google Felix Kane and tell me which fucking style middle class women are emulating.

Christ is there a better term than cultural appropriation for the kind of spiritual yoga-esque wash they’re pulling over pole work?

I already talked about all this though. In my gr8 pole deb8 tag there’s a fantastic quote about culturally appropriative bitches who do pole but feel the need to distance themselves from strippers. It’s probably ten pages back now but it’s worth reposting if anyone wants to look it up.

But yeah they’re all tired and they look bunk as shit in their little boy shorts and sports bras and splayed feet. Rihanna wouldn’t hire you and neither would diplo so knock it off.

Bolded the good parts. 

Anonymous said:
Hi! I know this may be an odd question, but is it alright to use you as a face character for RPs? If you don't, that's cool, and I won't, but I didn't feel comfortable with the idea before asking you first.

what would the character be like?

Anonymous said:
you have any fat people art?

I do, but its mostly of my friend and I don’t wanna post that ~ 

Anonymous said:
You've drawn the most adorable old lady, oh my god.

<3 super proud of her 

Anonymous said:
if you cropped out your name would you be willing to post more of your old work? :-0

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this is all really old 

Anonymous said:
Oh I mean like a fantasy story? With original charactes, plot and stuff? Just like half of the people of tumblr have one?

Oh yeah, I haven’t worked on it in like years, and I want to get back into full on illustrated comics, but it takes a lot of time… I can’t post it cause it would show my original name, but heres some art from my old comic, 

syntheticmomma:

lupusadlunam:

thechangelingmedusa:

Like seriously, why isn’t pole dancing an olympic sport? This is freakin gymnastics. This is strength and skill. This is not sexual whatsoever. Why does pole dancing have to be so stigmatised as a sexual thing that only strippers do? I have great respect for all people who can pull this off. This is art and beauty right here. 

HEY FUN FACT: pole dancing is known as something strippers do because strippers invented it. And that’s okay! It’s okay to have respect for strippers and the hard work they put into what they do! Let’s stop trying to take the stripper part out of pole dancing so upperclass white girls can do it without being ~stigmatized~ because god forbid women be sexual.

angrywocunited:

White Man from San Diego Waves Gun Around Small Children In Confrontation With Police and Is Taken Into Custody Alive.  

This white man walked towards the police with a gun pointed at them and they spend half an hour talking to him before they shoot him one time. If he had been a black man, they would’ve shot him dead. Before you police apologists claim this man has a history of mental illness (he does) that’s why the police was lenient,  Ezell Ford, a mentally ill black man, was recently killed by the LAPD. 

Anonymous said:
Hey Ten do you have your own story or something like that?

I don’t know what you mean by this 

Anonymous said:
Hi! So my ex-boyfriend told me all the kinks he'd like me to try out on him when we were dating and I learned a lot of bondage. We broke up because he moved far away but I haven't been feeling satisfied with other men anymore because I got used to the newer dynamic in the bedroom. Recently, though, I've met this new guy who told me he needed a new "dom" and that he was tired of his old one and I could be perfect for it. Should I be worried about the other lady or...? Idk what's acceptable...

that sub is trash. Either you talk to your partner and mutually break up, or you’re trash. And if you want to tie up trash to your bed that’s your own personal life choice, but personally I wouldn’t do that, not just because it’s fucked up, but because you are dealing with a sub who openly and freely lies to his domme and doesn’t see her as a person but just someone to get his rocks off. If you want to deal with all of that, that you’re choice. 

Anonymous said:
Actually... I want to sub. i was forced into submission, but I am submissive at heart and I want to give that. i want to be in control of my submission if that makes sense.. and I want the cuddling and easing down after. I want to be fucked and toyed with till I feel like i need to go to confessional, and then cuddled and given adoration and affection after. I want to be allowed to be submissive.. does that make any sense?

of course, lots of rape victims want to be/are submissive then the big hurdle is finding a domme that won’t turn out to be a huge fucking dick. Make sure your dom/me always listens to you, doesn’t laugh or belittle your needs, and takes you seriously.  If you feel uncomfortable and they don’t care, leave, without a second though. 

thetrekkiehasthephonebox:

I like the idea of taking every woman joke from the last season, and turning them into Moffat jokes.

Anonymous said:
Do you think BDSM could help me channel shit I went through? I was raped and tortured by a man for three months of my 17th year of life- everything from gags to chains, and ropes. I have scars and I'm both scared of them, but it makes me excited and hopeful when i see lesbian BDSM scenes. I don't understand why. I'm a lesbian.

Because of the dynamics of D/s I can actually enjoy having sex. I’m a rape victim as well, sex was awful, sex was a performance for me with a sham standing ovation for my partner. 

If you want to be domme I suggest understanding why, and what you are getting from this.

For me, it’s the safety, control, and I sincerely understand how much of a gift submission is. My partners, 9 times out of ten, are bigger and stronger than I am, but they still beg for permission, the big finale isn’t the mans orgasm, but my satisfaction. Yes I hit, choke, and say names, but my partner is very aware that they are safe too.  

I say this because bdsm porn scenes are for the male gaze, and I understand that women like it just as rough as men do, but when it comes to sexualized violence against women, you really need to make sure that you are not ‘taking it out’ on the person. Some people enjoy that, but for a lot of people who claim to be dom/me’s it’s hard to control and it turns into abuse. BDSM can help with a lot of things, but it can also make shit worse, and you always need to make sure you have you and your partners best interest at heart. 

Anonymous said:
Someone should slap the cockiness off your bitch ass face

sofiaee:

fullten:

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I like how you said ‘someone’ cause you know damn well you’re too much of a little bitch to even face me off of anon. No ones gonna do that boo, I walk out and get nothing but compliments and praise for being so beautiful all the time. It’s really nice. Too bad you’ll never know how it feels. 

I love this lady and omg she has the best comebacks. They make me feel so giddy and empowered. Like second hand empowerment…

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