If I don’t like your tone or the way you approach me, you’re getting blocked/ignored. Back handed compliments, approaching me like I owe you something, overall just shitty asks, no.

Anonymous said:
I'm in the market for a new vibrator. Do you fully recommend the magic wand as opposed to other vibrators? It seems to be super popular but I'm not sure if it's just because it doubles as a back massager and isn't shaped like a dildo...

I can honestly say I have never used the hitachi for it’s intended ‘back massage’ purposes. I like it a lot, but it is HELLA loud, I suggest if you have roommates or something, also invest in a box fan. 

Anonymous said:
I'm not sure if you do or not, but at one point for advice I know we could e-mail you. Was that still an option? I checked through your FAQ but I didn't see anything. If I missed it I'm really sorry. : x

uhh yeah you can, just a lot of that shit gets buried. When I offered it I got a huge pouring in of e-mails, which also went into the pouring of e-mails I get from work, and customers so it was kind of a mess and I know I didn’t reply to everyone who messaged me… -_- () I mean like with everyone you can send it, but there is not guarantee I’ll get to you ~ 

Anonymous said:
Hey! I'm new to being a PSO and I love it, but I have no idea how long I should plan on doing this work? What are your plans? Sorry if this is too personal - I'm just looking for a point of reference! Thank you for being such an inspiration to PSOs everywhere, and women in general!

I actually plan on doing this for life. When I first started I thought ‘Six months, save up, go to school for something.’ but everyone who went to school was making less than I was, and still have to pay back that giant student loan debt. I realized I thought instantly ‘short term’ because of the stigma with sex work. That I would be ‘used’ ‘worn’ ect. But there are plenty of older sex workers who still do insanely well, and I plan on being one of them. I enjoy my work, I enjoy the control, I enjoy being my own boss, I enjoy owning up to my failures and my successes. I love being a sex worker. 

Anonymous said:
do you enjoy sex?

Sex is something I have to enjoy, either I’m enjoying it, or I contact the dark lords to open up a portal into another dimension that I push him into… where he can never harm anyone with his weak stroke game again. 

Anonymous said:
You are just perfect. A friend told me of your blog, and as soon as I saw your gifset with the wads of cash, I knew you were amazing. Keep up the good work!

I plan on it babes ~ 

Anonymous said:
Thank you for being you~

You’re welcome, 100% sure I’m going to keep doing that till I die ~ 

Anonymous said:
I've liked/pretty much been in love with my friend for years. When I started liking him he was in a relationship and so I ignored my feelings and entered a relationship of my own during which time I told myself I didn't have feelings for him. 4 years later and we're both single for the first time and all these feelings are rushing back. We kinda flirt/hold hands and text all the time but my ex is his friend and I don't think he'll ever go there with me even if he does feel the same way. 1/2

Basically I just feel utterly pathetic that this guy has such an emotional hold over me. The slightest sign of affection and I have butterflies for days. I hate being this vulnerable but I don’t know if I can ever get over him cause I don’t want to cut him out of my life completely, he’s a really nice guy and one of my closest friends and I just don’t know what to do 2/2

It’s all chemicals babes. Not saying it means nothing, but for whatever reason, your brain sees him and thinks ‘This guy makes me feel good.’ and so you feel good, and then you keep fantasizing about him, that feeling escalates and then when you see him again your brain releases more chemicals to give you that euphoric feeling that you feel when he shows any sign of affection. When I go through a break up or something, I realize this, I rip apart those emotions from him and look at this person objectively, and a lot of the times, he’s not that special. Like he really isn’t. I’ll still have feelings, but I understand that the person I have feelings for is mediocre and that there are lots of men out there like him.  Like almost too many. Plus you’ve been suppressing your feelings so you’ve never been able to get over him. You want to act like you’re over him and you don’t want to feel vulnerable. Just dive the fuck in. Think about him without feeling guilty, text him when you know you’re bothering him, whatever. Who cares? You get over some quicker when you fully actually feel whatever it is you feel for this person. When you devour everything, feel full, and mostly feel done. You’re feeding your self scraps so you’ll always be hungry for him. Just dive in, see him as a normal person, and also, it’s always an option to just tell the dude you like him and wanna have his babies. You’re all adults. 

Anonymous said:
Hi there. I just wanna let you know you're a really inspiring person to me in art and in life! Up until recently I used to be hella meek and had a really hard time being confident and struggled by keeping everybody else happy but myself. I'm nearing the end of my college career and I'm a changed man, for the better and I just wanna let you know it's ppl like yourself that helped~ just wanna say thanks ;w;/ ! (ps you're super pretty and if I wasn't asexual, I'd have a huge crush on you <3 )

haha thanks babes, glad I could help ~ 

Anonymous said:
uuGGGHHH this guy on nf keeps sending me pictures of his nasty herpes dick.. I'd block him, but he's probably my best regular and he's not rude or anything but he doesn't even know why he's got sores and I want to tell him to get checked but I think he'd stop calling ?? this is a struggle

he knows dude. I get guys who call me who are like ‘My girlfriend keeps laughing at my cock and I don’t know why????? It’s two inches, thats normal right??????’ playing stupid to get my reaction. Dudes are gross and stupid, and this work, thats all you get. Mostly gross stupid men. I don’t bother opening his e-mails babes, 99% of the e-mails is dicks. Just… dicks. Unimpressive cheesy dicks. 

Anonymous said:
what are your rates for tattoo commissions?

no less then $100, just a black outline would be around there, colors are much more ~ 

Anonymous said:
Beautiful Miss Ten, do you consider yourself to be a misandrist?

Not 100% on how to answer that, my best friend is male, I have male friends, but those male friends understand my hatred of other men. So it’s a bit complex. 

Anonymous said:
Some good findomme ideas??? Like key phrases/scenarios please!?

Anonymous said:
How do you get graphics/gifs on a Nite Flirt listing?